Complaining About The Snow Is Good For You!It's the kind of weather that has some questioning life and geography. Some people are asking, "Why do I live in Minnesota?" But Dr. Cheryl Bemel, a psychologist with Allina Health, says go ahead and complain. "Talking about it really helps. Don't keep it all in, don't be that strong Minnesotan with the upper lip that doesn't want to say anything about how crummy you're feeling about the weather," Bemel said.